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Thursday, November 10, 2005

Foam party in Acanuno


foam party in akanuno
Originally uploaded by tumbleweeed.
this is a bittersweet moment for me... While this young gal is having foamy fun - like a child - she's also doing the entire household's laundry, like a mother.

this whole week, i have been at a workshop to develop Marta - an animation character - who is meant to be a tool to advocate for girls' rights in Timor.

there are so many issues facing girls here - as with many other societies. Early marriage "kaben sedu" when girls get married off at 14 years; early pregnancy when girls become mothers at 15 or 16 and face high risks because their bodies are too young to sustain such stress; lack of education because girls are the first to drop out of school when the family's too poor, or when she gets married off, or when she has to look after 8 other siblings; etc.

although in TL, there isn't an overt discrimination against girls unlike in China for example, women still face greater challenges than men.

It's especially disheartening when you go to the local markets and see the men gambling with wads of US dollars in their hands, while the womenfolk are sitting on the roadsides and markets selling their produce or wares.

it's not just here in Timor you see such behaviour. In Vietnam, i saw hordes of men drinking coffee at all hours and no women doing so - they were out working in the fields or on the streets peddling their wares.

Someone told me, "we're not trying to bash the men but trying to make life easier for the women."

The men in TL have struggled hard too -for the country's independence but so have the women - they fought alongside as soldiers and clandestine supporters - and also bore children, fed the families and looked after the sick.

WOMEN and MEN were made by God to be companions and to serve GOD together.

1 comment:

  1. What you are doing will certainly help I think. Better educational opportunities for the girls seems to have worked for the more developed countries.

    Great pic! It makes your point very effectively without being heavy handed.

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